This is the 6th installment of my Mis-Matched to Miss Matched series, and it’s dedicated to just one bachelor.
Bachelor #27 and I shared so many interests, it was unbelievable. Every line I read, I smiled and nodded my head. And no pets! Thank goodness. The computer screen told me that we were a 100% match! Could this be possible? After all I’ve been through already, I hoped, and I prayed.
I’m not revealing his age or profession for reasons that will become clear as you read on.
After a few email exchanges, we spoke on the phone. His voice was velvety smooth, an easy listening radio voice for sure. That first phone conversation lasted two hours. It felt like mere minutes. We chatted like old friends who were catching up after not speaking for a few months.
We met for dinner shortly thereafter. Mr. Tall, Dark and Handsome displayed impeccable manners and was very complimentary to me.
We had similar hobbies and the exact same taste in music. He was also a muscle car guy. A GM muscle car guy. Thank God he wasn’t a Ford or Chrysler guy. (No offense to Ford or Chrysler guys, but I know GM cars. I don’t know squat about the others.)
Several dinners followed. We enjoyed each other’s company tremendously.
Then one evening, he said, “We need to talk.”
Oh crap. Nothing good ever follows those words. I braced myself.
“There’s something I need to tell you.”
Maybe his ex’s name is tattooed on him somewhere. Or he’s a convicted felon. A serial killer. Bodies buried in the backyard. I could be next. Mom was right! Or he’s married. Or an illegal alien. Or he works for the Mob. Or worse, he liked “50 Shades of Grey.”
“I’ve wanted to tell you for some time now.”
“Okay. I’m listening.”
“I’m not like other guys.”
At that moment, I flashed back to the beginning of Michael Jackson’s Thriller video. Those were the words Michael said to his date before he turned into the werewolf. Oh crap.
“I like ************censored*************.”
Huh? I was speechless. Utterly. Totally. Speechless. For the first time in my life, I had no words. None.
This man who I thought could be, “The One,” just confessed his fetish to me. Picture me sitting there stunned. Really stunned. Deer in the headlights stunned.
Hopefully my mouth wasn’t hanging open. I don’t remember. But it’s fully in the realm of possibility.
My mind tried to process the words he had spoken. So many questions raced through my mind.
Here is the unfortunate question that popped out: “Does this mean you play for both teams?”
Disappointed, he answered, “No. I’m straight.”
“Okay.” Meaning, okay, I heard you. But I still didn’t know what to think.
I don’t have a problem with this fetish, in general. It’s not illegal or immoral. And I consider myself an open and accepting person. I don’t judge people’s actions when consenting adults are involved.
“Think about it.”
There was no doubt in my mind that’s all I would be thinking about in the near future. The question remained, “Could I live with it?”
I thought long and hard about it for a couple of days. I researched it on the internet. There were psychological explanations and justifications. All agreed it was a harmless practice. Apparently, it is more common than any of us would ever have imagined.
I finally made my decision. I couldn’t live with it.
I wanted to, because he seemed like a great guy, otherwise. We had so much in common. He treated me beautifully. Everything had been falling into place.
But I couldn’t live with this one thing. It was too big. And he wasn’t willing to give it up.
So, that was the end of that.
When I told my mother I broke up with him, she couldn’t believe it. “What was wrong with this one? You said he was perfect.”
“He had a fetish.”
“Oh my God! Oh my God! Don’t tell me!”
“No, don’t tell me! I don’t want to know what it is.”
“It’s not horrible. I just couldn’t live with it. It’s not like he murders people or anything.”
“No! Don’t say it! I don’t want to have nightmares!”
“No! Don’t tell me!”
So that, my friends, is why the fetish is censored. I do not want to be responsible for giving my mother nightmares. Since she loses so much sleep worrying about me to begin with, when she does fall asleep, I don’t want it to be nightmares about this particular fetish.
I don’t want anyone he knows to find out either. It’s not like he broadcasts this to his family, friends and co-workers. He was a nice guy. It just didn’t work out.
I think I’m going to watch the Thriller video now. Michael Jackson and Vincent Price—now there’s a perfect combination! Here’s a link to it, just in case you want to see it too. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOnqjkJTMaA
Stay tuned for the next chapter, “The Foreign Contingent.”
Copyright © 2014 by Suzanne Purewal